I just had a second baby.she is 3 months old.she is so cute but some how i just cant connect with her.i hear her cry and it is as if i just block it out.sometimes i pretend she is not there.even when i was pregnant with her i pretended it was all a dream.i was 8 weeks pregnant and started bleeding and thought i had a miscarriage.i was releaved and went to the doctor so that he could confirm it but after a few tests he announced that i am still pregnant.i just burst into tears and the doctor thought it was tears of joy.i went to the clinic twice to make an appointment to have an abortion but never went through with it.till now i dont know why i didnt do it.so what now?